they are going to be told about everything that is wrong with
them.’
28
These observations apply directly to the 360-degree process, in which
feedback is gathered from colleagues, superiors, direct reports and
customers in a systematic way, generally with the help of
questionnaires. Obviously, however, the same general principles and
cautions apply to any structured form of securing feedback.
Nonetheless, such words of advice highlight the importance of
establishing the groundwork for feedback to be obtained; it doesn’t
detract from the power and usefulness of gaining that information
when this is done in a conscientious manner. In this book we argue
that to become a fully complete leader, an accurate perception of how
you lead at the moment is essential. Irrespective of whether your
organization has a formal means of gaining feedback, it’s useful to
develop the habit of gaining at least some impression of how you
come across to others. Obviously, it would be irritating and
confusing for a team if you were to be overly self-conscious and
forever asking, ‘How did I come across in that presentation?’ Your
team needs leadership and it is a mistake to be too open about
feelings and insecurities, as we’ll discuss again in the remaining
chapters. The trick is to try to gain a picture of ourselves. In an earlier
chapter we introduced the metaphor of waiting for a photograph to
come back from the developers. We may believe we were perfectly
groomed as we posed for the photographer, but what will the prints
reveal?
There are even ways of gaining a picture of what our team thinks
of us without asking them. A trusted PA, for example, can be
invaluable. The day after a tricky presentation to the team, you can
ask her (or him), ‘Did that go down well? What are their worries?
Did I allay them? What are they looking for?’ Your PA is likely to be a
trusted confidante, and able to be honest without jeopardizing her
relationship either with you or with the team.
momentum complete leadership chapter seven
139
pages 138 /