CHAPTER 6
More Than an ATM

Next gen donors clearly want to be engaged in their giving. They want to be hands‐on, giving time and not just treasure. But the “Do Something Generation” is a far cry from the “Do Anything Generation.” Not all engagement is the same.

Ask next gen donors to just give money, and they will feel like a bank account. Ask them to contribute their skills, knowledge, or hard‐earned expertise, and they will go all in.

Valuing Me for Me

Even though they are only in their 20s and 30s, these next gen donors are, for the most part, highly educated, and many have substantial skills and experience. Some are successful entrepreneurs, some are lawyers, some run their family's large foundations, and so on. But just because next gen donors are eager to give their talent doesn't mean it's easy for them to do so. Some find that organizations only see them as a source of financial capital, not human capital. Others find that nonprofits that do try to engage them do so only in superficial ways that make little use of their specific skills and experience. Either way, the result is that donors feel underutilized, undervalued, and even disrespected. Obviously, donors who feel that way are not donors for long.

The worst case is when next gen donors feel they are treated “like an ATM and not like a person.” They want to be taken seriously as capable contributors who have more than money to give. They want to be seen as having both “means and a brain,” to be appreciated for “the skills and the smarts that I hopefully bring to the table, not what kind of car I drive.”

Next gen donors coming from families with a philanthropic legacy experience their own take on this, as they want to be seen as more than just a formidable last name or inexhaustible revenue source. They want to be recognized for the professional competencies and expertise they can bring to the work. One such donor explains how he is just now starting to feel more appreciated and useful as he is getting more widely known for the talents he brings: “I know that people involved in the community see me for me. They don't see me as my mother's son or my grandfather's grandson; instead, I bring a lot to the table in my own regard. Even though I'm not yet 30 years old and don't have a lifetime of experience under my belt, I'm still valued in terms of who I am, what my experiences are, what I bring to the table on my own merits, rather than on the merits of my last name.”

This person still acknowledges that a famous last name and family legacy helps and that “I can tweak that to my advantage at some points.” But when he feels most valued—and most committed—is when it's about him, not his name.

Some especially thoughtful donors we talked with, though, raised a caution about this desire to give talent. At times, some next gen donors can begin to value their own skills and expertise more than others—occasionally more than the professional staff of the groups they support. One donor calls for more “humility” among her peers:

There's definitely a segment of us in my generation who are very much the “I've made lots of money and I'm going to be an angel investor and bring my business skills” [type]. I think there are pieces of that which are really good, but there are times when the nonprofit sector professionals are not really given the opportunity to show they know a lot about the field they're in, or the problems they're trying to solve in the world, because a donor has “a better idea.” I think that we have to be very careful because we do have a lot of power in that situation and, whether or not our ideas are good, they might be adopted because our money is needed in order to do something for that nonprofit.

More Than a Party Planner

Next gen donors want to give their whole selves in part because doing so is important to their emerging identities as donors. They reject traditional check‐writing because they want to make sure the organization appreciates their other assets as well and because—as we've seen—they want to get close to the real work organizations do. “It can feel like I'm giving my money and it's detached from me. So, what about my self‐worth, my identity, and who I am? How can I contribute the other things that are integral to my self‐worth and my value? If I'm just giving money, it can make me feel that my value is just associated with that, rather than my time and talent. My voice and my experience are of value, too.”

On‐the‐ball nonprofits are definitely looking to give their future major donors ways to engage beyond just opening their wallets. But this works best when nonprofits offer outlets for engagement appropriate to the donor's skill set, making it personally meaningful. Says one, “I really don't want to go out and volunteer a day to go feed people at a homeless shelter. It is just not where my skills are best used; it is not what I do best. What I'm very good at is selling, marketing, and communication. Those are areas that organizations need a lot of help with.”

The next generation is savvy enough to spot the types of token engagements often offered to younger donors—like asking their friends to give, or sitting on a powerless “youth advisory committee.”1 They'd rather have the chance to be an advisor to the staff on, say, legal or technological questions—whatever best matches their skill sets. They'd rather serve the organization than sit on a board.

Mary Galeti, who we met in Chapter 3, talks passionately about this point, echoing what she's heard from many of her peers:

Young people are often relegated to a committee that plans a party for young people. Awesome. That is fun to do for a year or two, but many of my friends [say,] “I spent three years at McKinsey [consulting]. I have worked for three years at Goldman Sachs. Did you know that I am much smarter than throwing you a damn party? I have more to offer than that.” We want to feel valued for our talent and our time. Next generation donors want to see a clear path to where we are going and to understand what our role will be in that. I tell nonprofits that want to build a community of engaged young people. “Give us a clear call to action. Let's problem‐solve together. Tell us what you are working on, and let's work on this together. Tell me what you need me to do.” We want to be valued as professionals with time and talent to give.

It often comes back to respect for these donors. They want nonprofits to respect that their time is valuable. They want to be a valued and valuable partner. One next gen donor expressed, “I don't make my contribution by choosing the colors for a party or by figuring out what the gift bag is going be. That is not exciting to me. I haven't gone to stuff envelopes in this stage of my life because they make it into a big ladies' luncheon tea thing, and I'm like, I don't need this tea party. I don't have time to be here right now and do this. [I'd rather be] more involved, maybe as a very modest, humble thought‐partner.”

 

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Jenna Segal, a Broadway producer, women's advocate, and next gen donor in New York City, devotes a significant percentage of her time to philanthropy and insists on not being treated merely as an ATM or a party planner. She has thought a lot about how some organizations utilize her talents better than others, and she commits her whole self to those that take her seriously.

Jenna's sentiments speak to something we heard from many of her peers about a dilemma they face. Thoughtful engagement demands a lot of time, but it does so at a stage in their lives when this resource of free time is particularly scarce—as they launch careers, start families, and so on. This makes donors like Jenna very discerning. Yet they are unwilling to say the solution to this dilemma is to take the easy way out and just give money. They still want to go “all in”—giving time, talent, and treasure to one or two organizations—or not go at all.

The Value of Talent

Nonprofits and others doing good work for good causes certainly need money, especially the sort of significant and sustained gifts that Jenna says properly engaged next gen donors can give for the long run. But they still insist giving talent and treasure is better than treasure alone. One next gen member of a long‐standing wealthy family explained, “I don't want to underemphasize the importance of the financial support, because I think that's something that all of the organizations are in dire need of. But I think if you're only looking at it from the financial perspective, it leaves an incredible amount on the table, especially the degree to which time and talent can influence the treasure in terms of how that's allocated.”

Other donors see the value of talent in a more personal way, pointing to the special skills they can use—and eagerly want to use—in their philanthropic work. One talked about the value he can bring as a lawyer helping nonprofits work on their legislative advocacy: “For me, it gets personal. Since I have a law degree and I have all of these skills, this was something I wanted to do to make the world a better place.” Another emphasized being of specific use to the groups she funds: “I'm pretty useful at creating companies and building companies, and I imagine I can be pretty useful to nonprofits as well. So that's where I try to spend my time.”

You can see a familiar thread running through these statements: the desire for a close, highly engaged relationship with the groups they support, where they are helping to advance each organization's mission by lending meaningful expertise. Donors insist this relationship works best because they bring needed skills as well as funds to the table. Again, going “all in” is better for all involved.

Hadi Partovi believes in going all in. As an extremely successful tech entrepreneur and investor who was wealthy at a young age, Hadi knew he wanted to use this wealth to improve the world, especially the American education system, as his father had done in their native Iran. But unlike other wealthy young entrepreneurs he knows, he doesn't think his best strategy is to keep making more and more money. So after earning more than he and his family will ever need, he now gives more than just money to charity. Instead, he went all in by founding, funding, and running full‐time a nonprofit dedicated to making computer science education accessible to every child.

Hadi Partovi clearly believes in talent. He believes in using talent—in the form of trained teachers—as the lever for systemic change in the education system. He believes in teaching the skills necessary for young people to develop the talent needed in today's economy. He believes in hiring the best talent for the tech‐inspired nonprofit he founded and runs. And he believes his own talent is the most valuable gift he can give, even compared to the millions of dollars he's invested as a donor.

Hadi is a great illustration of a belief in talent that we heard over and over again across the full spectrum of donors we talked with—from inheritors to first‐generation wealth creators. For those coming into their roles as the next gen in established giving families, this belief in talent was often tied to their desire to be seen as more than just a famous last name or a cash machine. For those whose entrepreneurial success had brought them the resources to be big donors, the passion for giving talent was perhaps even more pronounced.

Only a few of the donors take this belief as far as Hadi does, devoting their talent full‐time as employees of the groups they fund. But nearly every donor talked in some way about wanting to make use of individual distinctive abilities in his or her giving.

What Does This Mean?

There's an old adage that says “throwing money at a problem” is not a good solution. Doing so is easy but rarely effective. Our world has a growing list of thorny problems, and the next generation of major donors has a staggering amount of money to throw at them. But next gen donors believe that old saying. They believe social change requires human and financial capital, and they stand ready and willing to give both.

The reservoir of skills and expertise these donors have to give remains relatively untapped. Anyone concerned about solving social problems or improving nonprofit effectiveness would do well to figure out how to make use of next gen talents as well as their time and treasure. Not just because doing so would mean they give more of the treasure but also because talent can be, in fact, pretty useful. Jenna's story of breathing new life into established organizations and Hadi's story of using talent to have measurable impact on the education system are good evidence of this.

We should also remember that next gen donors are at a point in their lives when they are finding their philanthropic identities. As we will explore, many inheritors are chomping at the bit to go out and “plow their own trail,” or to take over the work of improving their families' trails. And we've heard how earners like Hadi believe the same personal qualities that made them so successful so young in life can make them successful as a new breed of engaged and entrepreneurial donors. For both inheritors and earners, their abilities are a bigger part of their identity than their money. This is not surprising, as Gen Xers and Millennials have been raised to know that they are worth more than their wealth. We shouldn't be shocked, then, to hear how much these donors despise being treated like ATMs and, for women in particular, being seen only as fundraisers and party planners rather than as people with experience, training, and competency.

On the other hand, nonprofits and other ventures seeking to solve our difficult social problems need money. Some might even say they need that money—especially the level of money they can get from these donors—much more than they need skills from donors. Nonprofits might even resent having to spend precious staff time and resources to create “meaningful” volunteer opportunities for their biggest donors when they should spend those resources providing service for their needy clients or on advocacy for their policy proposals.

A way through this quandary, without resentment on either side, can be found in the idea of respect from both sides for the other. Organizations can respect their major donors as more than a last name or a bank account. Donors can respect organizations by not “holding a check over their heads” and by listening, not telling. We heard from some donors who recognize this need for humility and a focus on what is best for the organization. Said one, “I don't think that I have the solution to every problem or that if I just had more time I could be really making the organizations way more effective, but I definitely could play a role and could have an impact based on a variety of my skills.”

Next gen donors who are so eager to feel appreciated for their talents and to contribute those in meaningful ways run the risk of falling into a position of entitlement and unhelpful privilege. To avoid this, donors need to listen to and respect what organizations say they need donors to do, not just show up with their quiver of specific skills and say, “Find a way for me to use these.” This respectful understanding will be easier as donors get closer to the organizations they seek to help. Some donors we talked with were already trying to take this humbler approach, even honing their talent at stuffing envelopes because that is what their partner grantees needed most at the time, knowing they can ramp up to more skills‐based help when needed.

On the nonprofit side, we know there are plenty of organizations out there creatively finding ways to utilize the talents of their younger donors.2 Unfortunately, the evidence suggests this is not exactly a widespread trend. First, while many nonprofits talk the good Millennial talk, espousing the importance of engaging the next generation of leaders, most have not actually brought next gen donors onto their boards or given them skills‐based, hands‐on volunteer roles. For example, a recent BoardSource study found that only 16 percent of board members nationwide were under 40. The good news is that this number is on the rise.3

Even fewer nonprofits have set up new and creative ways to engage next gen donors—those who will be their major donors for the next several decades—in the talent‐focused, respectful, and meaningful ways these donors want. We know many nonprofit leaders are aware that they need to do so, as this is a common question we get when speaking to nonprofits about our research. The question they have is how to do it.

Next gen donors like Jenna Segal have a lot of suggestions for these nonprofits looking to engage them better. Beyond bringing next gen donors onto boards in careful ways like she suggests, and beyond the cliché approach of getting a Millennial to set up your Twitter feed, several ideas came out of our interviews and from our own experience in the field. Most obviously, as Jenna noted, nonprofits must be responsive when next gen donors ask to give their time and talent. Don't just put them off; meet with them, hear them out, and ask questions. Consider a small‐scale trial of their ideas before rejecting them out of hand, or maybe find a way for them to take the lead in exploring how they can best plug into the organization's work. If their ideas are off‐base, better to be candid with them about why you think so instead of ignoring them or offering vague promises of “we'll take a look at that.”

Also, rather than just giving next gen donors a symbolic or token seat on the board, put them in the driver's seat on a special task force that is charged with solving some real problem facing the organization and that requires donors to use their skills to make a serious impact. Better yet, given their penchant for engaging with peers (the subject of Chapter 7), give them the freedom to corral the talents of other next gen donors in service of a task. This requires nonprofits to rethink how they go about solving internal problems or developing new programs. It means approaching those tasks in a collaborative way with engaged next gen donors working alongside staff. Reimagining in this way might pay off in more ways than one.

Not all next gen donors need to go “all in” in the way that Hadi Partovi does, actually running the organizations they fund. But finding better ways for organizations to make good use of the talents of next gen donors seems an essential step in addressing our pressing social challenges. At a minimum, doing so will lead next gen donors to give more. At most, it will marshal the expertise of those donors to expand the organization's impact. Ideally, it will do both.

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